SARCOIDOSIS SYMPTOMS

Reddish-brownish lesions on the left mandibula...

Reddish-brownish lesions on the left mandibular region with recalcitrant cutaneous sarcoidosis (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

 

Geneva M Edwards- A health professional posted in General Medicine @ Suite 101: http://geneva-m-edwards.suite101.com/sarcoidosis-a-disease-affecting-women-more-frequently-than-men-a290093

Sarcoidosis is a diagnosed by excluding other possible diseases. This may involve obtaining a thorough patient history, lab work, chest x-rays and CT scans to visualize the presence of granulomas in various organs. Lymph node and skin biopsies may also be used to help differentiate this disease from others. Once diagnosis is confirmed, treatment of this disease will vary because of individuality.

 

Wikipedia The Free Encylopedia:

Sarcoidosis is a systemic inflammatory disease that can affect any organ. Common symptoms are vague, such as fatigue unchanged by sleep, lack of energy, weight loss, aches and pains, arthritis, dry eyes, swelling of the knees, blurry vision, shortness of breath, a dry hacking cough or skin lesions. Sarcoidosis and cancer may mimic one another, making the distinction difficult.[4] The cutaneous symptoms vary, and range from rashes and noduli (small bumps) to erythema nodosum or lupus pernio. It is often asymptomatic.

The combination of erythema nodosum, bilateral hilar lymphadenopathy and arthralgia is called Löfgren syndrome. This syndrome has a relatively good prognosis.

Renal, liver (including portal hypertension), heart[5] or brain involvement may cause further symptoms and altered functioning.

 Lungs

Pulmonary localization is by far the most common of individuals with sarcoidosis. 90 percent of patients have an abnormal chest x-ray at some time during their course. Overall, approximately 50 percent develop permanent pulmonary abnormalities and 5 to 15 percent have progressive fibrosis of the lung parenchyma. Sarcoidosis of the lung is primarily an interstitial lung disease in which the inflammatory process involves the alveoli, small bronchi, and small blood vessels. In acute and subacute cases, the physical examination usually reveals dry rales.[6]

 Liver

Although liver biopsy reveals liver involvement in 60 to 90 percent of cases, liver dysfunction is usually not important clinically. Approximately 20–30% have hepatomegaly and/or biochemical evidence of liver involvement. Usually these changes reflect a cholestatic pattern and include an elevated alkaline phosphatase level; the bilirubin and aminotransferases are only mildly elevated. Jaundice is rare.[6]

 Skin

Sarcoidosis involves the skin in about 25 percent of patients. The most common lesions are erythema nodosum, plaques, maculopapular eruptions, subcutaneous nodules, and lupus pernio. Treatment is not required, since the lesions usually resolve spontaneously in 2 to 4 weeks. Although it may be disfiguring, cutaneous sarcoidosis rarely causes major problems.[6]

 Heart

Although cardiac involvement is present in 20% to 30% of patients with sarcoidosis, only about 5% of patients with systemic sarcoidosis are symptomatic.[7] The presentation of cardiac sarcoidosis can range from asymptomatic conduction abnormalities to fatal ventricular arrhythmia.[8] Myocardial sarcoidosis can be a rare cause of sudden cardiac death.[9][10] Recently, retired hockey player Gaetano Orlando received a “total artificial heart” to replace ventricles damaged by sarcoidosis.

 Eye

Manifestations in the eye include uveitis, uveoparotitis, and retinal inflammation, which may result in loss of visual acuity or blindness. The combination of anterior uveitis, parotitis, VII cranial nerve paralysis and fever is called uveoparotid fever, and is associated with Heerfordt-Waldenstrom syndrome. (D86.8)

Blood

Abnormal clinical blood tests are frequent but not diagnostic. Anemia occurs in 4-20% of patients with sarcoidosis. Leukopenia (due to a reduced number of circulating lymphocytes [11] or lymphopenia) occurs in as many as 40% of patients but is rarely severe. In the absence of splenomegaly, leukopenia may reflect bone marrow involvement, however, the most common mechanism is a redistribution of blood T cells to sites of disease.[12] Other non-specific findings include monocytosis, occurring in the majority of sarcoidosis cases,[13] increased hepatic enzymes or alkaline phosphatase. Hypercalciuria and hypercalcemia are seen in <10% of patients.[14]

Lymph nodes

Lymphadenopathy is very common in sarcoidosis. Intrathoracic nodes are enlarged in 75 to 90 percent of all patients; usually this involves the hilar nodes, but the paratracheal nodes are commonly involved. Peripheral lymphadenopathy is very common, particularly involving the cervical (the most common head and neck manifestation of the disease [15]), axillary, epitrochlear, and inguinal nodes. Palpation causes no pain.[6]

Nervous system

All components of the nervous system can be involved in sarcoidosis. Sarcoidosis affecting the brain or nerves is known as neurosarcoidosis. Neurologic findings are observed in about 5 percent of patients. Cranial nerves are predominantly affected, and peripheral facial nerve palsy, often bilateral, is the most common neurological manifestation of sarcoidosis.[16] It occurs suddenly and is usually transient. Other common manifestations of neurosarcoid include optic nerve dysfunction, papilledema, palate dysfunction, hearing abnormalities, hypothalamic and pituitary abnormalities, chronic meningitis, and peripheral neuropathy.[6] Intramedullary sarcoidosis is rare and occurs in less than 1% of cases. There is usually granulomatous involvement of the basal meninges that subsequently affects the cranial nerves. Myelopathy may be the initial clinical presentation of intramedullary neurosarcoidosis.[17] Read more »

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BIGGEST FEAR FOR PEOPLE WITH SARCOIDOSIS; ESPECIALLY AFRICAN-AMERICAN WOMEN

 

An AP chest xray showing the typical nodularit...

An AP chest xray showing the typical nodularity of sarcoidosis in a person with sarcoidosis (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

You would be surprised to know how many cases of Sarcoidosis are mis-diagnosed. I began to think about it when I took a trip down memory lane, back to when we first, finally found out my daughter had Sarcoidosis. I remember being scared out of my mind that she had leukemia. But that wasn’t enough, medical professionals also toyed with lymphoma, TB, Lupus and the list went on and on over the years, What I’m trying to say is this: My daughter lost some very precious time in life while she waited with bated breath to learn about what she really had, Sarcoidosis. And even after doctor’s diagnosed her with Sarcoidosis more than four years ago, we find today she could have prevented this disease from progressing to a chronic state, had her treating physicians had more knowledge about Sarcoidosis.

This is a really big problem. It seems that there are not a lot of physician’s who can claim to be specialized in treating Sarcoidosis. Therefore; because of that, a whole- lot of unsuspecting Sarcoidosis carriers are at risk. Statistics show autoimmune disease Sarcoidosis effects African-Americans 10 times greater than other races and African American women 2 times more than African men. This is alarming.  All though it primarily affects people between the ages of 20 and 30 years old, other age groups are not immune. Even more disturbing:  Medical research has not yet determined what actually causes Sarcoidosis. Even though it was at one time classified as an autoimmune disease, researchers are looking at other possible causes.

I’m perplexed about why so many diseases tend to affect African-Americans at higher rates than our counter-races. However, when I study the situation carefully, I can only conclude that economic disparity plays a  key role. Enviornment..when you look at the ghetto, verse middle and upper-class neighborhoods, while comparing what each has to offer, the ghetto comes up short on every level. From the delivery room to the grave, services available to minorities fall short of what America expects and demands for non-minorities. For instance, power lines seem to end up in poverty-stricken areas like they need the current to live. Landfills make their way there to, reeking poisonous and fowl odors, that residents have no choice of blocking out of their systems.  Another contributing factor is; absence of medical insurance, inferior education and no way out.

So if this disease has a tendency to lay dormant from time to time, masquerade as something it is not and get away with it, then it’s no wonder African-Americans, especially African-American women are affected 10 times more. If the disease is mis-diagnosed or if carrier’s have no access to medical care, then really ” how surprising is it African-Americans are affected 10 times more?”

Fortunately for my daughter, she has good insurance. And even with her good insurance, I don’t feel she got the best care. I say that because she was never referred to a medical facility that has a specialized team that treats Sarcoidosis patients, until 2 days ago. Yep, a neurologist paid her a visit in the hospital and informed her that she should be under a neurologist, a pulmonary specialist “which she has” and a Rheumatoidologist. The neurologist further explained to my daughter that when she had eye surgery a month ago, because her tear ducts were infected with Sarcoidosis, her sarcoidosis was also dissipating…or spreading if you will. A Sarcoidosis specialist would have know this was possible years ago and put her on a medication regiment geared toward keeping the Sarcoidosis in remission. So my question is: In this day and time  how does something like this happen? Why didn’t my daughter’s treating physicians know she needed to be under doctors who specialize in treating patients with Sarcoidosis?

When all the guessing began 4 years ago and ended in a final diagnosis of Sarcoidosis, why didn’t they know then, what they seem to know now? As for me; the reasons they didn’t know what to do then” are “my biggest fear for people with Sarcoidosis today.”

 

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SCARED TO DEATH OF SARCOIDOSIS? WELCOME TO THE CLUB

This is probably one of the most difficult post I’ve ever written. I say (one) of the most, because during my four years of blogging, I’ve had more than one occasion to attempt to post through a wrenched heart. For instance, “I’ve lost my mother, father, my children‘s father and mother in-law, to some sort of cancer, while even more lay waiting in the wings.

However,  today my struggle to post with dry eyes, can be attributed to loving my only child, mother of my grandchildren and lover of life. In fact, she’s such a lover of life, she’s a flight attendant. Maybe her vigor and zeal for life blinded me to the realness of her condition, Sarcoidosis.” Normally, I research illnesses or conditions family member’s encounter, for my own peace of mind. Well, now that I think about it, I did the same with hers, when I learned 6 years ago she had it.

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Cabin in a PBair Embraer ERJ 145 LR featuring an air hostess and a steward serving passengers in the air (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

It seems that what happened is; I put myself in denial about the seriousness of it.” Every new symptom, got placed in the same stage..I should have known better.

Actually, I believe the way for today’s post, was paved yesterday, when my daughter text me the a photo below of how  her face looked when she woke up. When I looked at this  picture, a light went on in my head and in my heart. I had to re-group and re-process everything I’d read about Sarcoidosis, so that I could proceed and enter the real world of Sarcoidosis patients. And I’m not discouraged at all. I’d rather know what she’s dealing with than not know what she’s dealing with.

So at the tender age of 25 or 26, my daughter excitedly took on a new career as a flight attendant. She was so excited…about that job. I remember it like it was yesterday, because then she was a single parent, so I asked her; “how do you plan to be a flight attendant with a small child? ” Long story short, a mother knows when the right thing comes along for her child, whether it be a mate or a job…and I knew in my heart this would be a dream job for her. Essentially, my husband and I helped her make it happen, by keeping my then, one granddaughter, so she could fly the friendly sky’s.

It wasn’t long after her career began that she developed Sarcoidosis. I’ve seen it progress from an infant stage to a undesireable mature stage. In fact, pictures of her entire Sarcoidosis journey rests in the back of my head, where I thought they would stay, but didn’t. ironically, those pictures are coming out to haunt me….forcing me to look at what was to be.

I’ll talk about what doctor’s said tomorrow…

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Gay worker claims Facebook ’like’ got him fired

Profile shown on Thefacebook in 2005

Profile shown on Thefacebook in 2005 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

You might not think it’s fair, but it’s real. Social networking has a double-edged sword. Really, that’s too bad because when Facebook is used for it’s intended purpose “it’s fantastic.” Yet in every aspect of life…”one bad apple positions itself to spoil the batch.” It’s inevitable…Why? Well, the short answer is because there are a lot of bad, twisted people in the world. And like it or not…Facebook gives people like this a stellar platform. Having access to social networking, is like a turning a kid loose in a candy store. There’s just so much eye-candy…and you really never have to show your face. Of course there’s a dark side to this epidemic also.  Sexual predators, prostitutes, child porn stalkers and other degenerates now have a free source of advertisement, networking and way of seducing.

As for me; I still don’t understand why people would give employer‘s passwords for their Facebook accounts? And furthermore, why even tell your employer you have a Facebook page? Doing this, immediately places superiors in a place you don’t want them to be. You will never be on guard 24/7 with words. So, once you put it out there, and post it, unless you catch it right away….it’s a wrap.

Unless I’m misinformed; I don’t believe you have to disclose to an employer whether you have a Facebook page or not. Even if the question is asked…it’s no crime to answer that question with an emphatic “no.” A lot of people caught in these Facebook battles, can only blame themselves. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out people form opinions about you, based on what they hear, see and read….That has not changed. Bottom line; if you put it out there, be prepared to deal with the after-math. I mean really, “if we couldn’t control what people do with gossip or secrets before Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin, and other social networking sites, “what on earth makes you think there’s a possibility to control it now?” Today the situation is (OOC) out of control, so why feed into it? You have only yourself to blame, in cases where the leak came from you…

Life Inc on Today’s Eve Tahmincioglu reported, a former management analyst at the Library of Congress  claimed he was fired after he “liked” a Facebook page for same-sex parents. Peter TerVeer says doing this led to his boss discovering he is gay. The page TerVeer liked is;  “Two Dads”  a group that helps “promote the gay and lesbian community,” according to the page.

TerVeer alleges that when his manager, John Mech, discovered he was gay, his once-positive performance reviews turned negative, and his boss started making derogatory statements about his sexual orientation. This is according to TerVeer’s attorney Thomas Simeone.  READ MORE   Gay worker claims Facebook ’like’ got him fired.

 

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Gay worker claims Facebook ’like’ got him fired.

 

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OMG! LA MOM TEXTING WHILE DRIVING WITH BABY ON LAP????

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Driving Cars in a Traffic Jam (Photo credit: epSos.de)

Talking about putting the “S” in Stupid, this mom does just that. And you wonder …why young people seem lost?  USA Today…On Deadline reported;  according to news reports from the Southland;

A 29-year-old mother of three was stopped by police while driving on a Los Angeles freeway, “yes…with her 1-year-old-daughter sitting on her lap while she texted. “What on earth is this world coming to?” This is just plain stupid and “reeks” of child-endangerment. Mother’s please…who’s that important? I mean really, that text couldn’t wait? Police believed it should have waited.

That’s why Shawndeeia Bowen, was charged with suspicion of child endangerment. Bowen told authorities the baby was crying, so she pulled her up to the driver’s seat to calm her. This is according to KTLA-TV.

Fortunately a concerned citizen and motorist on I-405 called 91, possibly preventing yet another fatal vehicle accident…

 

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Kanye West Dating Kim Kardashian…What?

Kim Kardashian at the Seventh Annual Hollywood...

Kim Kardashian at the Seventh Annual Hollywood Life Magazine Awards. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

When I read Kanye West was dating Kim Kardashian I almost gagged. Not because she’s White…but because she’s down right weird. Some of the stunts and comments she’s made on her reality show….the few times I watched, clearly suggest the girl has some “issues.”

Kim Kardashian even said she wants her man to shave his body hair…Well unless I’m “way way” out of touch…I just don’t see a “brother” doing that..especially Kanye West…

Furthermore…the ink’s not even dry on Kim Kardashian’s divorce papers…”Who’s lovin who at this point?” (OMG)

Frankly I don’t believe Kim Kardashian knows what love is, because you can’t be that obsessed with yourself and have room left to love somebody other than yourself….

Did Kanye watch Kim’s reality show and take note of what went down with Kim’s last marriage? If he didn’t he needs to re-run those “bad baby episodes.” They are a “warning” to any man whose considering having a serious relationship with Kim Kardashian….

Need I say more?

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The Best Advice My Mamma Gave Me

“Keep your panties up and your dress down.

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Whitney Houston; A Woman After My Own Heart; Why Can’t They Let Her R.I.P?

Where Do Broken Hearts Go

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Just Whitney

Just Whitney (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

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Whitney Houston - Concert in Central Park / Good Morning America 2009 (Photo credit: asterix611)

Maan…Today I see yet another story about Whitney Houston and what they found. I just have to ask…”How many times does this woman have to die?” How many different ways can you describe her death, life and demise? Better yet, is it necessary? Leave her alone already….She’s tired of making you (media) money from her grave…

Really, I wish they’d let her rest, but obviously that’s just too much to ask for. Tonight I’m listening to some of her greatest hits again. For some reason I’m stuck on “Didn’t Know My Own Strength” and “Don’t Cry For Me.” I can hardly hold back my tears for her. Maybe that’s because I’m in a place where my strength is being tested also. I must say it’s not a good feeling. In fact, sometimes it’s down right scary.

As a woman, I want to come off strong…but as a human I’m constantly reminded of my weaknesses. Though I’ve never entertained death or drugs as a solution, often I find myself perplexed just the same. That being said I’m no better, just a little stronger.

So In Whitney’s song, she said she lost touch with her soul, and had nowhere to go, nothing to hold on to. Take it from me…that’s such a place to be in…She comes back professing “she didn’t know her own strength.” (OMG)

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Is Lauryn Hill Over The Hill Or What?

The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill

The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Lauryn Hill
Cover of Lauryn Hill

Today I’m feeling like I need to hear a little Lauryn Hill. Back in the day she was the bomb. Unfortunately for us…her fans…she elected to go on a long hiatus. But on that note…I’m just joking about her “being over the hill.”  I’ve even heard she’s making a come back. Whether she does or not, in no way is she over the hill. Here I’m highlighting the “good ole’ days, so don’t get all “wet mouthed” thinking I’m about to slam Lauryn, cause’ I ain’t.” Instead, I want to reminisce about the times she was responsible for me wanting to rush home from work…just so I could chill, pour a glass of wine and listen to her spill…her heart,on my stereo, in my house on Friday nights…

And like many other icons, she can never be imitated or duplicated. Her smooth sultry voice is just too deep for common entertainers to re-create. Basically, Lauryn Hill is in a zone of her own. I have no doubt in my mind  she would’ve  been a super-star, if she had at least kept her career on the burner. But that’s neither here nor there…cause it is what it is. Just know that Lauryn Hill’s reputation for laying down sensuous, heart wrenching tracks precedes her. Yep she’s a legend…unless she comes back and re-kindles that naughty sounding vocal flame that only she could light and then she’ll be a super-star….

My all time favorite Lauryn Hill tracks are “EX FACTOR” and “The Sweetest Thing.” featured on her “The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill ” piece. If you know these tracks… then you know she’s singing  about love. Ex Factor is so “bad” it just sends chills through my body. Like a lot of women, Lauryn is perplexed about what she needs to do to get some “reciprocity.” Now one definition of ”reciprocity” is:

  1. relationship involving mutual exchange: a relationship between people involving the exchange of goods, services, favors, or obligations.
  2. reciprocal relationship or act: something done mutually or in return.
No doubt the key word here is “mutual.” Sounds like she was doing all the giving..emotionally and possibly even financially. Lauryn pleads: “why don’t you care for me, lie for me…die for me?” Wow…

Moving along…”The Sweetest Thing” also featured on Lauryn’s album titled “The MISEDUCATION of Lauryn Hill” is right up front with “Ex Factor” in my opinion. Even the title provokes you to do some self-inventory…while at the same time casting doubt where there was once certainty…It’s like …just listening to her lyrics, thrusts your mind into assembling thoughts that pressure you to indulge in the kind of sweet sensations, that can only be derived from loving somebody………Lauryn could do that through your ears.

MISEDUCATION…..I couldn’t have put it better myself. Who can argue that most of what we learn in traditional educational systems fall short, when it comes to mastering “affairs of the heart.?” I mean when I think back  to when I was young, ready and willing to know everything  about anything;  ”not one teacher told me it was possible to lose myself, trying to save my heart.”  In fact; I never met a professor who earned a P.H.D. in “matters of the heart.” Yet, to navigate successfully through this thing called life…we need to know about these things. And for the record; dealing with “affairs of the heart” requires specialized training, the kind few seem to have when life dictates a need for it. oH i FORGOT…”EXPERIENCE IS STILL THE BEST TEACHER.”

Ms. Hill “croons” about stuff like; “the sweetest thing she’d ever known was like a kiss on her collar bone.” There were even times she wished she hadn’t gotten so weak…cause then it hurt just to hear him speak. I mean yeah; it was a good hurt, if you know what I mean. After all, Lauryn communicates of feeling like “a queen on a throne.” I’d say she was riding pretty high for a while, until it got so bad, she’d get mad when he walked away….telling him to leave…. when she really wanted him to stay..LOL

Maaaan…how many love stories can she tell in one song? What woman who has ever loved can’t relate?

Lauryn Hill

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Well enough of my intro…it’s time to let Lauryn pleasure your ears and heart. Like she says; ” ex-factor…it could all be so simple, but you’d rather make it hard.”  Lauryn concludes in  ”The Sweetest Thing” by unwrapping heartache  tucked away, evidence of a love gone wrong. She proclaims; “how sad when things come to an end.”  In no uncertain terms “Lauryn eloquently elaborates on how it feels like to love somebody so much, it hurts.” The sweetest thing she’d ever known, without notice, altered itself into something bitter.” How many of us can feel her pain …the kind that hurts so good? ”

“You know what I mean, like intoxicating”

But then Hill spits follow-up lyrical matter, meant to unite hearts with reality, coupled with common sense. You see once she does this, she comes to realize “all good things come to an end.” I say …in one way or another…

(OMG) When Lauryn divulges the essence of her love, she’s almost abysmal in her intuitive manner of educating hearts, while mesmerizing us all with passionate poetic auditory sensations…”Gotta love it!”

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Sweet Lauryn Hill Tracks:

 

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10 SIGNS HE DON’T LOVE YOU LIKE YOU LOVE HIM

If This Isn't Love (Jennifer Hudson song)

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Anybody who’s been in a situation where they did all the giving knows the signs already. But for those who are still in the dark, let us help you figure it out. The first step of coming out of the dark is to turn on the light.

When you care about somebody it’s easy to block out the bad in fear of loosing them. Some women even get to a point in the relationship where they find themselves holding back things they need to say, should say or do for fear of rubbing their man or mate the wrong way. When people do this they are inadvertently putting themselves on the back burner right in his or her face. What a sight to see. This is a lot like the reaction people have who love somebody less than they love them, but they reap the benefits of someone who loves just the same….yes it’s insane but’s it’s real.

While there are many signs he don’t love you like you love him…I picked out these 10, because they leave no doubt in a sane person’s mind about whether a person loves you or loves you not if they’re guilty of them. I’m gonna start at 10. Don’t skip to 1, read them all first.

10. You find yourself wondering whether the prize (him) was worth the price

9.  You love him but don’t like him

8.  You find yourself looking at clocks or watches when you’re out without him

7. Not one family member or friend likes him cause he’s an ass

6. You don’t remember ever-loving him

5. The thrill is gone in the bedroom

4. He clown’s you in front of other people

3. You taking care of everything for a long time with no end in sight

2. He leaves you standing in the cold and don’t call

1. You wish he was dead so you don’t have to think about how to leave him

Enough said. If you can relate to more than half or these 10 signs…start planning your escape…

More than 10 means things probably won’t get any better. In addition, it goes without saying; if you wish he was dead…it’s a wrap already….

I just love this Jennifer Hudson song…”Where You At.” Finally she got it…realized he wasn’t doing the things he said he’d do….

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